Friday, December 31, 2010

Character & Circumstance

Cost. Struggle. Trial. Endurance. These are some of the Bible's most pervasive themes. Other common themes are an abundant life, glory, joy and power. Interestingly enough, all of these themes flowed from the character of Christ to form a single story, one tome of accumulated texts to speak of one and the same being: God. God knows both joy and struggle. He knows abundance, and its cost. God knows trial and glory; endurance and power. They are not two distinct sets of traits, but linked outcomes when circumstance meets character.

In fact, what's happening here is a dynamic mix of character and circumstance. Underlying this mix is a God-initiated principle: the best way to eliminate some enemies is to make them your allies. On a person-to-person level, we can see scripture illustrating this in Mark 12:31, when we are told to love our neighbors as we love ourselves; in Luke 10:25-37, where we see an example of a man helping his ethnic rival; and also in Matthew 5:44, where we are told to love our enemies. But we also see this principle in person-to-situation relations, or as previously called, character-to-circumstance. For too often, we find our circumstances being our greatest hindrance or enemy; something which must be defeated and overcome, not worked with. But God has again applied this principle in our lives with the power of our love for him. In Romans 8:28, we are introduced to this idea that all of the things that go on in our lives are now involved, by God, in a plan to better our lives. Our circumstances turn from enemy to ally.

The joyful life is not absent of struggle. Glory is not absent of trial. Heck! In God's plan, cost even contributes to abundance (Luke 6:38). Peace is not absence of war. We must not confuse character traits with circumstances. Peace isn't a situation, it's a character trait. Struggle is a situation; joy is a trait. It's not the case that a good life isn't difficult and a difficult life, not good. Not at all! Difficult circumstances only highlight God's goodness.

On the 26th of December, Isaiah and I met up after service. Along with much of our church's youth group, we packed into the newly opened IHOP. Throughout the day, a blizzard had been hovering over the region and over a foot of snow was expected. I decided I'd have an easier time commuting to his house than going home, so I took my brother up on his offer to sleep over. Waiting for the bus, Isaiah prayed several times, and most genuinely, that a bus come and deliver us from the snow. We were being peppered all over our bare faces, the wind was chilling our bodies and the snow below cooled our feet beyond comfort. Eventually, I couldn't help but pray that at least, we'd get out of the circumstance learning something new and valuable. Soon after, Isaiah burst into praise and two-step! Often, we had to mumble and grown through the Hillsong lyrics unbeknown to us, but we praised right through it. I began clapping and within only a few moments, two b6 buses appeared. Isaiah and I definitely took something away from that.

What we took away, I realized, was affirmed by the Bible. Tough times are often the best times. Firstly, as indicated by Ephesians 2:9, any given situation that you need saving is another chance for God to prove Himself. If He were to make the situation bearable or solvable to you, you'd be stuck in that same thinking that you can do it all by yourself. But it is God who is worthy of the glory, He who deserves the credit. Secondly, struggles gives us a chance to mature. In Romans 5:1-5, Paul illustrates how tribulation builds character in the form of patience, experience and hope. In James 1:2-4, it is written that even temptation builds character by strengthening our faith. Our job is to resist by believing in the Lord and obeying. Finally, struggle and endurance increase you Kingdom value. In Mark 10:31, Jesus says that the last will be the first. In 1 Peter 2, we read that when we endure and struggle as a result of a good choice, that is commendable to God. For that's the example Christ left, to accept suffering as a consequence of good decision-making.

However, in Mark 10:30, we also read that along with a hundredfold blessing comes persecution. Persecution does not eliminate the good life, it enhances it. This is a call to be the type of person who neither looks for trouble nor runs from it. To be the kind of individual who sets up principles of love, integrity and faith. That in a world of sheer darkness, those bearing light won't hide it, but will provide beacons of guidance and love. For we know that bad things happen when good people do nothing.

9 comments:

  1. Though this wasn't easy for me to understand at first, after reading and re-reading I believe I get what you are saying and I agree. Basically it's like when I was begging God to deliver me from my broken right hand and heal me supernaturally. I was BEGGING HIM, to the point that I got really mad at him because I knew he could do it, but he was not doing it. Once I finally stopped talking and accepted the fact that he wasn't going to do what I wanted him to do something magical happened... I began to thank him for my broken hand and began to praise him with my broken hand. As if by magic I was being overwhelmed with gratitude and I thought "My God... I still have a hand! I have legs, feet, and I am ok. Amelia is ok. I am ok!". I discovered that having my hand broken allowed me to experience a lot of things I would not have been able to experience otherwise. It helped me humble myself to ask for and receive help. It also helped me to get out of the rut I was in because of other problems I was facing at the same time. I learned that I wasn't alone and unless I shared what I was going through with others they wouldn't know and therefore would not be able to help me. This was also a great opportunity for others to do what God wanted them to do: Help someone (me). There's probably more that was done with just that particular incident that God allowed me to go through. Anyways, God did end up healing me supernaturally anyways. The doctors said I'd have the cast on for 4 to 8 weeks and when I went for a checkup in about 12 days the doctor said "Do you want this thing off? Your hand is perfectly healed!". I couldn't believe it. He was surprised and I was shocked and overjoyed. I didn't need surgery or even physical therapy. Still even if my hand would've taken two months to heal it would've been ok. Long long story right? Anyways, let me know if I got what you are saying or if I got it all wrong dahling.

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  2. Well the posts are really dense because there are many points in a relatively short post. I try to keep it brief and enlightening. And you are right on the money sista! By letting that God-initiated principle I spoke of in paragraph 2 take course, you turned the circumstance from an enemy to an ally. So what you have just done is 1)you've allowed God to be gloried in your circumstance which develops your testimony and relationship to Him; 2)Built your character even further by strengthening your faith in the Lord who loves you, Gigi :) and;3) you have increased your Kingdom value. Praise God!

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  3. Eggssellent!!!!!!!!!!!! Gracias Dahling!!!!!

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  4. Okay, after several invitations to clarify this blog, I concede. Ultimately, I am thanking God for the toughest moments of life. Those difficult circumstances are positive opportunities for our character. In Christ, three wonderful things happen every time a difficult circumstance comes. The reason is that all circumstances are working together for our good, according to Romans 8:28.
    As Edwin Louis Cole says in Maximized Manhood, "God has made everything conform to that ultimate purpose-to produce Christlikeness in us-to make us into His own image." The three things are 1)God receives the glory, 2)One's character is improved by the challenge, 3)One increases his/her Kingdom value. So, stop complaining about your problems. They are each out to help you...in Christ.

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  5. I just received a message from a pastor that said "I don't care" and I have unknowingly lived by that phrase since July when I really let go and let God. The phrase means you don't hold on to your cares and worries, but cast them on The Lord. My husband and I just recently received news that I had had a miscarriage, and some people could not believe how peaceful I was about the situation. Initially, of course, I was upset and wondered "why, I'm healthy", but I prayed and gained understanding that this is bigger than me and that God is the giver and taker of life. I had 2 roads to choose from...joy or sulk in depression. I chose to go with The Lord on the path of joy. Before I got pregnant I had been praying for a friend of mine who has had multiple miscarriages. My prayer was that God would see her pregnancy through to the end and deliver the babies (twins) in a healthy delivery. So when I had my miscarriage during my second prayer to God to help me deal with my human emotions and look only at Him, His Holy Spirit later put her on my heart and I told the father that in all of my prayers for my friend if I had to lose for her to have I would be ok with it. My husband and I have a BEAUTIFUL 4 year old daughter who is so bright, friendly, charismatic and an absolute JOY and GIFT from God. I say all that to say this, in all circumstances let God be your guide and He will give you peace beyond your understanding. We are thankful for the life that He has blessed us with and we look forward to the future when we try again. So, God bless you and continue writing. You never know how something you say or write may inspire someone.

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  6. wow that's very relevant. Thank you for your testimony. It is a wonderful example of the difficulties that life throws that God can work with.

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  7. So this is a complex post, as Caroline has mentioned, and I am going to respond a little off topic... kind of just blabbering, but one of your sentences brought me to think about these: "It's not the case that a good life isn't difficult and a difficult life, not good."
    Lately it is very often that I realize how relative life is. how relative difficulty and goodness is.
    And more and more i am realizing how tough it is for me not to compare my life to my friends'. rather then getting angry at God, like Caroline said, about why her hand isnt healing, I will get angry at my friends for having it so easy, rather than realizing that 1) the hardship will make me bigger and better in the end 2) the reason I am able to get through the hardship BY becoming bigger and better is because of God. Comparison and jealousy is really an obstacle when it comes to accepting that a difficult life is a good life. actually acceptance is the first step to what you said: "It's not the case that a good life isn't difficult and a difficult life, not good." accepting the circumstance God has given you, and using them. This is another difficult thing for me.

    again i prob just blabbered, hope it makes sense.

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  8. Boroka Nagy: You make complete and TOTAL sense. I compare my life to my friend's life's too, you're not alone in that at all. It's not easy, I tell you. Thanks for being honest, I really enjoyed reading your post and I totally relate.

    Thank you for writing it.

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